June 21, 2017
Dr. Dorian Mintzer, Revolution Retirement
As a child, Dori grew up recognizing different money mindsets by watching her parents’ financial habits. Couples may have a division of labor when it comes to finances; but, it is important they talk about them so they know what questions should be asked in times of crisis. Dori and Kathleen explore this myth and why it is important that couples need to talk about money and that is actually an act of love.
- Use “I” statements when talking about money
- Ask a third person (financial advisor, banker, estate attorney, relationship or money coach) to help facilitate these conversations
- Appreciate your partner in a money conversation (share what it was like growing up, was money talked about, what does money mean to you, etc.)
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Dr. Dori Mintzer - With over 40 years of experience as a psychologist, Dr. Dorian Mintzer (Dori) is an experienced therapist, executive coach, consultant, speaker, and writer. She is the co-author of The Couples Retirement Puzzle: The 10 Must-Have Conversations for Creating an Amazing New Life Together, and co-producer of “The Career Playbook: Second Half Plays. Dori has been featured in a variety of media such as the NY Times, Wall Street Journal, NPR, ABC Evening News, and the Today Show. For more information visit www.revolutionizeretirement.com.
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May 10, 2017
Kelly Shikany, CFP® CDFA™, Lakeside Wealth Management
In this episode, Kathleen talks to Kelly about the myth, “Planning is unnecessary because you only live once.” When people buy into this myth they often wait too long to seek the help of an advisor. Kelly busts this myth open and discusses the importance of financially planning for the future so you can enjoy today.
Listen and discover:
- How planning for the future now, gives you many more choices when it comes to how you want to live in retirement.
- Why working with an advisor can help you define your core values so you can build a retirement plan that honors these ideals.
- That you are never too young to plan for your future because you only live once!
Kelly Shikany, CFP® is a member of the Financial Planning Association serving clients at Lakeside Wealth Management in Chesterton, IN, and the surrounding communities. Kelly has 20 years of investment management experience, is a strong advocate for women investors who may be managing life’s milestones, and a supporter of gender equality since 7th grade. She volunteers on the CFP® Boards Pilot program, "Each One Reach Three,” mentors women financial advisors and hosts a quarterly gathering for them to enhance financial confidence and engagement. You can contact Kelly at email@example.com, or visit her website at http://www.lakesidewealth.com.
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April 12, 2017
Julie Littlechild, Founder, Absolute Engagement
The idea that couples don’t need to be equally involved in managing money sounds contrary to popular financial planning mindsets. Kathleen and Julie discuss what happens when both individuals in a couple are not equally involved in finances, how to handle expectations, and improve effective communications around money. Listeners walk away with tips on how to reframe the money conversation, decide who is better equipped to take the lead on execution vs. vision for finances, and how advisors can help draw both individuals into the discussion.
Julie Littlechild is a speaker, writer, and researcher. Her firm, Absolute Engagement, conducts on-going research into the drivers of personal, client and team engagement.
Julie has worked with and studied top performing financial advisors, their clients and their teams for twenty years. She is a recognized expert on driving deeper engagement and growth, the author of a popular blog. Her book, The Pursuit of Absolute Engagement, was released in January 2107. For more information, contact Julie at firstname.lastname@example.org.
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August 10, 2016
Michelle McKinnon,Financial Advisor, Payne Capital Management
Michelle discusses how through her relationships with her clients she has discovered how many people buy into the myth that Social Security will provide for them in retirement. In this podcast, she warns listeners about how Social Security can lead you into a false sense of security and how important it is to be proactive about retirement savings. Listen in and learn how to start tracking your expenses and realistically planning for the future.
Michelle McKinnon is a financial advisor with Payne Capital Management (PCM) and hosts a weekly podcast called $martWomen. Michelle is committed to helping women manage their finances with ease. To learn more, visit her website at http://paynecm.com/ or listen to her podcast at $martWomen.
June 29, 2016
Rhonda Noordyk, Founder & CEO, The Women’s Financial Wellness Center, LLC
Rhonda Noordyk, Founder & CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center, LLC and Certified Women’s Leadership Coach, joined Kathleen on this episode. Together they discussed the false belief that only those without money need financial literacy training. Rhonda shares her experience starting a for-profit center focused on educating and supporting women in transition such as death of a spouse or divorce. She provides tips on how to bust through this myth (Hint: Become aware, tolerate uncomfortable feelings and then decide what, if anything, to change.)
Rhonda ends the program with a special offer for Breaking Money Silence™ listeners: Mention you listened to this podcast and receive 10% off on the next New Beginnings™ facilitator training. This course is designed for financial advisors, insurance agents, attorneys, and therapists. To register, call 262.522.1502 or visit the website.
Rhonda Noordyk brings over a decade of financial industry and higher education experience to the marketplace. In 2014, she opened The Women’s Financial Wellness Center. Its mission is to alleviate the financial vulnerability of women in transition by providing a safe environment for them to acquire financial knowledge and learn practical tools. The center also offers access to a team of financial wellness experts and holistic collaborative partners. In addition, Rhonda developed and facilitates New Beginnings™ workshops to help women challenge money attitudes and guide them step-by-step through the change process, whether it be divorce or widowhood. Her work has been featured on Fox6 News, Studio A, and Morning Blend. For more information, click here.
April 20, 2016
Kathleen interviews Shell Tain, a certified money coach and friend, about one of her favorite money myths. Shell discusses how this unhealthy money script can give a person a false sense of control and get in the way of true intimacy between partners. By the end of their time together, they both agree a healthier belief is to allow others to “engage in money with me” and share this part of our lives.
Shell Tain is a credentialed certified coach, a money coach who knows how to help people make changes. As an Accountant/Controller for many years, Shell gained first hand money experience in everything from "start-ups" to mid-sized companies. She knows that improving the way you are with money isn’t just about number crunching. Shell, the Untangler, helps you find a way out of your money knot. For more information or to schedule a complimentary money coaching session,visit http://shelltain.com/ or call 503.258.1630.
February 17, 2016
Lauran Star, CEO of LS Consulting
Author of Your Power Pivot
Today, Kathleen explores Lauran's money myth that "Men should be the primary breadwinners in a family" and helps her bust it wide open.