Myth: Men should manage the money.

October 25, 2017

Stacy Francis, CFP®, CDFA®, CES™, Francis Financial 

The myth that men should manage the money is one that many women succumb to when they get married. This includes women who for years managed their own money during college and at the beginning of a career. However, approximately 80% of women will end up having to manage their money without a partner at some point in their life due to divorce or the death of a spouse. Stacy and Kathleen investigate this myth and how it can severely disadvantage women throughout their lives.

Take Aways:

  1. The upside. There is an upside to men always managing the money. In the short run, some women who are intimidated by finances or who don’t feel they have the time to devote to money management get relief from this responsibility. Eventually, the upside diminishes and can create a real problem for women after a divorce, or the death of their partner. 
  1. Try a money date. A great way to get more comfortable with money is to have a date night to talk about finances in a non-threatening and engaging way. Listen and learn how Stacy and her husband have gotten creative with their money dates so everyone gets their needs met. 
  1. Use apps. It is important for each person to fully understand where the money is going. Using finance tools like Mint.com is a great way to integrate spending with education about where your money is going. It is an easy online system that connects with your bank accounts, tracks your spending, and even categorizes them for you. 

Bio:

Stacy Francis, CFP®, CDFA®, CES™ 

Stacy is the President and CEO of Francis Financial, which she founded 15 years ago. She is a Certified Financial Planner® (CFP®), Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) and a Certified Estate and Trust Specialist (CES™). She is also the founder of Savvy Ladies™, a nonprofit that has provided free personal finance education and resources to over 15,000 women. 

Stacy has received numerous awards including Investment News Top 20 Women to Watch in the United States, Financial Planning Association’s Heart of Financial Planning Award and Financial Planning Magazine's Pro Bono Award. She was also listed as a National Money Hero by CNN Money Magazine and received the Women’s Choice Award for one of the best financial advisors for women. 

She is a nationally-recognized financial expert as an active member of CNBC’s Digital Financial Advisor Council, the Forbes Finance Council, as well as an expert contributor for The Wall Street Journal. She has appeared in over 100 media outlets including CNBC, CNN, Good Morning America, Investment News, Money Magazine, NBC, The New York Times, and USA Today. 

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Myth: I don’t need to worry about money, some day my prince will come.

July 5, 2017

Women can have a love/hate relationship with money. Even in today’s society, some women feel they are not going to be attractive to a mate if they are financially put together. Barbara Stanny and Kathleen delve into the notion that women are still waiting for Prince Charming to rescue them financially instead of empowering themselves to learn about investments and money management. Listen in as they discuss the importance of busting this myth wide open so that women of all ages can be more financially intelligent and set a good example for the next generation.

Take Aways:

Barbara explains that getting smart about money involves a three-pronged process – the outer work (education), the inner work (money mindsets), and the higher work (your life purpose).

You need to take small steps consistently and you will see remarkable results.

Money doesn’t come from what you earn, it comes from what you do with what you earn. (Click to Tweet)]

 Barbara Stanny is the best-selling author of Prince Charming Isn't Coming, Secrets of Six-Figure Women, and Overcoming Underearning®.  She has been teaching women how to take charge of their money and take charge of their lives for 20 plus years. An experienced mentor, wealth coach, and sought-after speaker, Barbara can help you create the wealth you desire and the life you deserve. 

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Myth: A Man is a Plan.

June 7, 2017

Paula Harris, Co-Founder, WH Cornerstone Investments 

A man is a plan is a myth many women, unfortunately, use to avoid dealing with their finances. In this podcast, listen to Kathleen interview Paula about how to break this myth down so you can start to make simple decisions every day to reach financial security. 

Listen in and discover: 

  • Why it is important to take care of yourself financially and not wait until you are married to let your partner do it for you.
  • How to practice the “set it and forget” method of saving.
  • Ways to set realistic financial goals.
  • Why delaying gratification today is part of any sound financial plan.
  • How a certified financial planner can help.  

WH Cornerstone’s co-founder, Paula Harris is part financial therapist and part dream architect. She takes great pride in helping her clients, particularly women, obtain financial peace of mind and independence. In addition to her role as co-founder, Paula is very actively involved in the community. In the past, she has served on several boards including serving as the Past President of the Plymouth Philharmonic Orchestra and the 2012 Chairman of the Board for the South Shore Chamber of Commerce. She currently is an advisory board member of empowerHER.

Paula is a graduate of Providence College and now lives in Plymouth, MA and the Berkshires with her husband and co-founder, Bill Harris.

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Myth: It is okay to ignore your finances.

May 24, 2017

Anne Dickinson, Eye on Your Business

When business owners buy into the myth that it is okay to ignore your finances, their bottom line probably suffers. In this episode, Kathleen interviews Anne about how not knowing “your numbers” negatively affects your business and how more female business owners than men may suffer from this myth.

Listen and learn:

  1. Why financial knowledge is power, and how learning more about your business finances boosts confidence.
  2. How to take one small step at a time to get organized and how working with a bookkeeper can help.
  3. What it takes to be more financially savvy and how taking action reduces your stress and improves your decision-making.

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Anne Dickinson is the cash flow and profits optimizer. She uses her profit leaks x-ray vision to help overwhelmed business leaders take back control of their business finances, stop money from falling through the cracks, and make moves that result in more money, more time, and more freedom.

Creator of the Stop the Profit L.E.A.K.S. Formula™, Anne isn’t afraid to get her hands dirty as she works side-by-side with business leaders to identify and eliminate money leaks, ignite profits and improve cash flow and liquidity to create a strong, healthy business.

Anne has an MBA from Babson College, worked in the Defense and High Tech industries, packaged and sold assets, dissected and improved operations, set up Treasury departments, and owned successful entrepreneurial ventures.

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Myth: I don’t need to save for retirement because I have Social Security.

August 10, 2016

Michelle McKinnon,Financial Advisor, Payne Capital Management

Michelle discusses how through her relationships with her clients she has discovered how many people buy into the myth that Social Security will provide for them in retirement. In this podcast, she warns listeners about how Social Security can lead you into a false sense of security and how important it is to be proactive about retirement savings. Listen in and learn how to start tracking your expenses and realistically planning for the future.

Michelle McKinnon is a financial advisor with Payne Capital Management (PCM) and hosts a weekly podcast called $martWomen. Michelle is committed to helping women manage their finances with ease. To learn more, visit her website at http://paynecm.com/ or listen to her podcast at $martWomen.

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Myth: Financial Literacy is only for those in poverty.

June 29, 2016

Rhonda Noordyk, Founder & CEO, The Women’s Financial Wellness Center, LLC

Rhonda Noordyk, Founder & CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center, LLC and Certified Women’s Leadership Coach, joined Kathleen on this episode. Together they discussed the false belief that only those without money need financial literacy training. Rhonda shares her experience starting a for-profit center focused on educating and supporting women in transition such as death of a spouse or divorce. She provides tips on how to bust through this myth (Hint: Become aware, tolerate uncomfortable feelings and then decide what, if anything, to change.) 

Rhonda ends the program with a special offer for Breaking Money Silence™ listeners:  Mention you listened to this podcast and receive 10% off on the next New Beginningsfacilitator training. This course is designed for financial advisors, insurance agents, attorneys, and therapists. To register, call 262.522.1502 or visit the website

Rhonda Noordyk brings over a decade of financial industry and higher education experience to the marketplace. In 2014, she opened The Women’s Financial Wellness Center. Its mission is to alleviate the financial vulnerability of women in transition by providing a safe environment for them to acquire financial knowledge and learn practical tools. The center also offers access to a team of financial wellness experts and holistic collaborative partners. In addition, Rhonda developed and facilitates New Beginnings workshops to help women challenge money attitudes and guide them step-by-step through the change process, whether it be divorce or widowhood. Her work has been featured on Fox6 News, Studio A, and Morning Blend. For more information, click here

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Myth: Women Entrepreneurs aren’t interested in growing their business.

June 15, 2016

Women business owners are diverse as they don't all think, act, and plan the same way. The majority do want to grow their businesses, but what motivates them to do so can be different than what motivates their male counterparts. Listen to today's episode as Kathleen and Sherri talk about women entrepreneurs, how they view risk and business growth differently, and discover tips for more successfully working with this segment of clients. Hint: Start by letting go of this myth!

After working for more than 20 years at a major Canadian bank, primarily in Commercial Banking, Sherri Munro founded Munro Consulting Services, (http:www.munroeconsulting.ca), specializing in working with women entrepreneurs. She helps these clients feel more prepared, knowledgeable, and confident to grow their businesses. Through one-on-one coaching,skill-building sessions, and comprehensive discussions about their business, finances and market, Sherri collaborates with established business owners to formulate the right approach to raise capital for their businesses, and to have deep and meaningful conversations and relationships with their Business Bankers. For more information, follow Sherri on Twitter @MunroC3 or e-mail her directly at sherri@munroconsulting.ca.

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Myth: Men Should be the Primary Breadwinners in the Family

February 17, 2016

Lauran Star, CEO of LS Consulting
Author of Your Power Pivot

Today, Kathleen explores Lauran's money myth that "Men should be the primary breadwinners in a family" and helps her bust it wide open.   

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